Yesterday I sent sms messages to a couple of should be concerned and capable to help descendants. No answer.
Nobody loves my grandmother. Nobody cares if she’s dying. They all think her attitude is a pain and her illness is fake and they think she is just trying to get attention. Her caregiver has a nasty attitude. Her caregiver’s voice uses all the tonal ranges of hate, scorn, dismissiveness, disrespect and disdain.
This week her caregiver is on leave and my grandmother is left at the mercy of 3 maids. The cook has a neutral attitude. The two maids have the same hate, scorn, dismissiveness, disrespect and disdain. All this on my 82 year old, parkinsons disease stricken grandmother.
It is painful and educational for me to watch such a disgrace happening to my grandmother. What could she have done in her life to deserve such treatment? Why do these people take great pleasure at disrespecting my grandmother?
It is quite possible that the reason she stays sick and is degenerating to death is because of all the negative attitudes surrounding her day and night.
I remember being sick myself, everyone hated my herbalist who looks like a witch, the loathing was too much I had to flee my own home to stay at my brother’s house where we would be a little more welcome. I will write about that experience on www.eczemacure.info
I’ll be taking her away from all this for a weekend to the beach. Maybe the salt of the ocean will rub deeply into her to heal her, strengthen her.